Sunday, February 3, 2008
FRIENDSHIPS:
"What is a friend?
A single soul dwelling in two bodies".
- Aristotle Perhaps the one relation that has survived the trials and tribulations of time and has still remained unconditional is friendship. A unique blend of affection, loyalty, love, respect, trust and loads of fun is perhaps what describes the true meaning of friendship between two individuals.
Similar interests, mutual respect and strong attachment with each other are what friends share between each other. These are just the general traits of a friendship. To experience what is friendship, one must have true friends, who are indeed rare treasure.
Different people have different definitions of friendship. For some, it is the trust in an individual that he / she won't hurt you. For others, it is unconditional love.
There are some who feel that friendship is companionship. People form definitions based on the kind of experiences they have had. This is one relation that has been nurtured since times immemorial.
There are famous stories about friends in mythologies of different religions all over the world. They say a person who has found a faithful friend has found a priceless treasure. Psychologically speaking, friendship may be defined as "a dynamic, mutual relationship between two individuals. As children become friends, they negotiate boundaries within which both partners function". This helps them to function like healthy individuals in life as they learn to draw a line as and when needed in a relation. This greatly helps in the emotional development of an individual. However, any relation needs constant nurturing and development from all the people that are involved in one. Friendship cannot survive if one person makes all the effort to sustain it without any mutual recognition from others.
Since friendship starts the moment a child starts socializing, the kind of friends that the child chooses should be taken care of till the time he / she learns to differentiate between right and wrong.
Wrong peers or lack of socializing can lead to severe psychological traumas and disorders, finally leading to social maladjustment. The correct peer group is essential for the development of the personality of a child.
Both positive and negative experiences refine the personality of the individual. Thus it is essential that you find friends who are compatible with you on an emotional and psychological basis.
BEST FRIENDS POEM:
Nothing can come between the friendship of best friends. They laugh in each other's happiness, cry when one is hurt, offer help without thinking twice and thank God that they found each other. As a tribute to this special friendship, we bring you a poem for best friendship. If you have been waiting to tell your friend how special he / she is, convey your feelings with this true friendship poem.
When I cry, you are there to help me out
When I am happy, you are there to hear me shout
When I grin you know that I am really mad
You can always tell when I am sad
You are the best friend I have ever had!
You are there with me through thick and thin
You offer a helping hand when I am dim
You patiently listen when I want to talk
You tell me I am good even when I have been bad
You are the best friend I have ever had! So hear me out when I say
You are the light in my day
You are the moon in my nightThat made my life so bright
With you I am always glad
You are the best friend I have ever had!
THANK YOU FRIEND POEM:
This beautiful "Thank You" poem for a friend will definitely make your friend smile from ear to ear. Never forget to remind your friends how special they are. People who have true friends don't always realize their value until they lose them. After all that they do for them, even a "Thank You" is not uttered by ungrateful people. So to make your friendship grow even stronger check out this "Thanks" friendship poem.
When you feel alone one day
Remember I am just a phone call away
I want the entire world to know
That I have a true friend in you
I adore you for all that you do for me
With a face so sweet and a heart so beautiful
You always reassure me when I'm doubtful
Telling me how much you adore me
And holding me tight
Being there for me even in the middle of night
Thank You dear friend, you mean a lot to me
Now I will show you,
How much you mean to me!
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